What are the benefits of Aikido for children?
Although adults might
practice Aikido to develop inner peace, relaxation, or self-defense,
most children don't even think about these concepts. So why is Aikido a
good idea for kids? Aikido teaches kids calmness. Of course, kids
shouldn't be calm all the time. Aikido gives them the choice. If they
need to sit still at school, or concentrate on homework, or focus during
sport, Aikido shows them exactly how to do that. The techniques and ki
testing we do teach them correct calmness. This is entirely different
from keeping their emotions bottled up. Aikido calmness feels good.
Aikido helps kids at school. By
training, kids develop calm, clear minds. As a result, they absorb knowledge
easier, and think with greater clarity. Aikido is about developing the full
human potential, and school is one of the most important places for this
potential to be realized. Aikido teaches kids practical self-defense. Aikido
does not require athletic talent. In fact, athletic prowess can sometimes
get in the way. Aikido works for little people, since it does not rely on
size, or speed, or weight.
The key to making progress in
Aikido is simply persevering and having a positive attitude. What better
lesson can we teach our kids? Some martial art instructors feel that "fun"
does not belong in the dojo, because to study martial arts one must be
dedicated and serious. However, for a child, any environment that promotes
learning through laughter, imagery and games becomes a safe environment.
This safe environment can enhance a child's ability to learn and thus begin
studying the more serious side of martial arts. Having fun, playing games,
and using one's imagination are part of growing up. Opportunities and
permission to do all of these things allow children to take risks in a safe
way. By exploring their limits, kids can open new realms of understanding
about themselves and the world in which they live.
Kids have the ability to learn
basic Aikido principles through exercises, games and techniques. Kids can
become absorbed in an activity because it is fun and then receive additional
benefits, such as an increased awareness of their surroundings and a better
perception of the strengths and limitations of themselves and others. They
have the opportunity to push themselves further, to explore their abilities,
to assert themselves, to focus their attention, to push themselves
physically, emotionally and mentally beyond what they think they are capable
of. Aikido teaches kids "how to be strong" and how learning to stay calm and
relaxed can be much stronger than things like anger, force and aggression.
They learn about responsibility, doing the right thing, even without reward,
about treating each other with respect and kindness. They also learn about
things like bullying, or how to respond to verbal insults.
Aikido
is training for the mind and body. Aikido is training for life. Aikido
teaches kids a lighter approach to life. A plodding serious approach to life
doesn't feel good. And it usually doesn't yield the best possible results.
Aikido works best when you relax and feel light. By learning this in
practice, our children can't help but apply this to their lives.
Aikido gives kids a positive
worldview. It teaches that in order to create something worthwhile, you must
work in harmony with your environment and others. If your mind is correct,
calm, and positive, you can make something good out of whatever the universe
hands you.
Aiki
is not an art to fight or defeat an enemy. It is a Way in which to
harmonize all people into one family. The essence of Aikido is to put
oneself in tune with the functioning of the universe, to become one with the
universe. Those who grasped the inner meaning of Aikido possess the
universe within themselves.
O-Sensei (Founder of Aikido)